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13 thoughts on “CALL OF (Parental) DUTY: Part III This Is Your Brain On Video Games

  1. I thought I’d add a recent article to your research from the Star Tribune (12/26/12). Apparently young gamers can match (or exceed) the skills of medical residents in robotic surgery. See http://www.startribune.com/lifestyle/184842241.html My husband and step-son are avid Xbox gamers and enjoy playing Call of Duty: Black Ops. When my step-son was younger we did limit his video game time and balanced it with writing (we had him keep a journal). I have yet to see any negative consequences of their video gaming. My husband and son are both smart, well-grounded men and haven’t developed any aggressive, violent tendencies. Although I admit that we probably talk more than normal families about the zombie apocalypse! I think that their shared love of gaming (including video, board, and role-playing games) has given them a strong connection. How many teenagers still like to hang out with their parents?

    • Thanks for your comment, Jenny! Yes, I can see your point. My husband has sometimes played Age of Empires with Sevrin and it was fun for both of them. It’s helpful to hear how other families are handling gaming. Thank you!

  2. Jen and Sev, Glad you are having this discussion. It is worth having. Having worked with children all of my adult life, I have seen this issue evolve over the years. I believe it is an issue of violence as entertainment. The type and extent of violence which is considered entertaining has definitely changed in the last 50 years. For me the debate is not how violent entertainment affects any one individual but rather how violent entertainment affects our SOCIETY as a whole. How do I, as an individual, feel about this change and what is my responsible response to it. It is similar to pollution. I know that not throwing my trash on the ground will not really save the planet. However, it is my responsibility to do what I can to improve the situation. My grandchildren will never be allowed to play violent videos or watch overly violent videos at my home, not because I am afraid THEY will become violent but because Barry and I strongly oppose the affect violent entertainment has on our society. We don’t just vote with our ballets. We vote with our dollars!

  3. Interesting study! Thanks for sharing!

    • I think the jury is still out on the good v. bad impact. As for our family, in the end we decided that our son could not have the game right now but that we will continue to discuss and reconsider next year (rather than saying absolutely no until you are out of the house). Not a very satisfying answer for him, as you can probably guess. In this series of posts, I’m trying to recap the process that we went through to come to that decision. Stay tuned – more to come!

  4. I think your point about gaming being a real-time, giant experiment is true about many things in our modern world. I think of several health examples like Asparatme, MSG, GMOs, and the myriad of other chemicals in our food and environment. I am also daily living the giant experiment of trying to figure out the best way to treat persistent Lyme disease – it is a very uncomfortable feeling to know that there may be more questions than answers when seeking to heal from serious illness.

    Couple things you and Sev have me wondering about. One is empathy – do people who are reading about violence develop a feeling of empathy for those experiencing it? Do people acting out killing in violent games develop a feeling of empathy for those people killed? Does this matter if the characters are not “real” people? Does violent gaming change attitudes toward real victims of violence?

    The other thing I wonder is since the impacts of gaming are a giant experiment, is there some way to conduct an experiment of your own that would be acceptable to both Mom & Dad and teen son? If Sev were to play games that were more violent, what things would you want him to notice about his internal reactions? What would Sev think is important to notice?

  5. I’ve been following this series on games with real interest. In New Zealand there are very strict gun laws and police are mainly unarmed – but of course we still have horrible incidents involving guns – readily available for shooting game or for sport. Still even without a culture of violence we still see and hear violence in language and actions of the very young and not so very young. We can’t compare small boys making guns out of anything that vaguely looks like a gun (toilet paper rolls!!) with the idealisation of the TV gang cultures of Southland and The Wire and yes the popularity of Call of Duty across generations.

    It’s easy to be dismissive and say it’s nurture over nature or VV – but the reality is that in New Zealand – as elsewhere – so many children live in poverty and struggle to achieve some sense of belonging or place in the world. So many children cannot participate in discussions about whether something is ‘good for them’ or not. We’ve moved from a discourse of children’s rights to children’s interests in less than 5 years. Small potatoes when you compare it with issues of abject poverty in India or Somalia but real enough for the children experiencing exclusion from participation in their own lives.

    It’s great to see that the conversation about this issue will continue in your family.

    • Thank you for your thoughtful comments. It is such a complex issue, and I think you raise a good point about children’s ability to participate in discussions about their own lives. Yes, the discussion is continuing in our family and I have several more posts to write. I really appreciate your input!

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